Married (open/poly). very playful. Funny and Sarcastic, but not insufferable. BDSM wise, I'm a brat/switch, if that helps at all, but I don't live it 24/7. Curvy/thick/chubby woman. 5'2, aka fun size. Happily married, just like extra connections from time to time. Quality, not quantity. Looking for something friendship based with fun, romantic, and affectionate benefits, and ongoing when time allows in our schedules. Connection and friendship needs to be established before intimacy so if you're looking for NSA, I'm not for you. Not looking for one and done situations. If you are attached, I prefer you be in an open relationship as well - if you aren't, I take it case by case. Strongly prefer men and women 30-50. *Please don't wink, "choose", or message me if you are under 30.* Being a cougar is NOT MY THING. Open to body type/race. Ideally hoping for men with beards who are "well endowed", but not a deal breaker if you aren't. Specifically looking for those in and around the Philadelphia/near Philly burbs area. Not interested in out of state or cyber only - not interested in those who are two states away and "travel to the area often". *Viewing your profile does not indicate interest, only that I was curious about basic information. If you do not have any pictures listed (or only fuzzy, blurry ones) and little to no information in your profile, I will not respond to messages.